Here’s a response a student seriously submitted as part of a personal reflection section on a homework assignment:
What is one thing you want to continue doing in your relationships? I want to continue staying within the perceived cultural norms while violating others in privacy. Muahahaha. Ie, going the speed limit when there are people around, then speeding like a bat out of hell when the roads are empty.
What is one thing you want to stop doing in your relationships? I want to stop expecting women to understand what I mean when I say things and expect them to argue reasonably, because them bitches be trippin’.
What is one thing you want to start doing in your relationships? I want to be more aware of cross-culturally offensive actions. I have some asian friends in Davis, and we like to make fun of each other all the time, and I hung out with some guy elsewhere that ended up being really offended when I made an Asian joke. Oh well, that guy was a douche anyway.